Dear Editor: Re: May Day traditional dance draws concerns, The Record, Aug. 28.
Reading Theresa McManus' article left me flabbergasted and concerned. Flabbergasted because I cannot imagine who would find this lovely and innocent tradition less than charming. And concerned for parents who are trying to find problems where there are none.
As a young girl, I would have been thrilled beyond belief to dance with an older man. Dancing is an entry into learning social behaviour and how to conduct one's self with grown-ups.
I cannot believe that anyone would be either uncomfortable or negative about this tradition unless they were searching for dangers under every shrub and toadstool.
It is an insult to the Royal Lancers who have a strong and shining history with the community. It is also an insult to the young girls whose parents would not trust them to discuss any errant behaviour.
We need to protect our young children from danger, but we must also trust them and allow them the freedom to interact with people of all ages. Young women must learn to navigate the social seas in a responsible and comfortable manner, and that can't be done when unfounded fear is instilled in them.
My humble advice to parents who are voicing concerns is to not watch so much sensationalized news, especially from the U.S. Get yourself and your children really involved in your community, and get to know as many people as you can from all walks of life. Fear can ruin a childhood and over protectiveness can wither a brave spirit. Living in a bubble is not conducive to expanding emotional and educational horizons.
Let this traditional dance go on to let young girls know there is a wonderful world beyond MTV, texting, and the Net.
Diane Adams
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